Tired of dating nice wrong woman
Okay, Evan, I agree mostly with your opinion on younger men/older women. I mean, I can see why an older man would want to date a younger woman – physically that is, but why would a 28-year-old woman want to date a man 45 or more? I can totally understand why older men go for younger women.There’s no denying that they’re, for the most part, in better shape, with better skin, and less baggage from broken relationships.It’s a lot easier for a man to take out a carefree, responsibility free, baggage free, wrinkle free 28-year-old, which is why so many men try to go in that direction. Men want much younger women, but rarely do much younger women want older men.Put another way, if a woman has an array of other quality options closer to her age range, what incentives would she have to date a man who is SEVENTEEN YEARS OLDER? Before any 40 people get all hot and bothered about this – I am not judging. I do think people improve with age (my wife is nodding). She doesn’t need a guy who will be taking Viagra when she’s sexually peaking at 43..You can also interact with Jordan on Facebook or Twitter. Does the idea of going out and seeing all those “happy” couples make you cringe? The good news is that changing your relationship status is actually a lot easier than you think.The problem here isn’t “nice guys” and “bad boys.” That’s a false dichotomy and one that has otherwise good men acting like jerks when it comes to women.
Hey, I’m no psychologist – just your friendly, neighborhood dating coach. Whether we like it or not, there is nearly a full generation gap between 28 and 45.But I do know women, and lots of women in their 20’s. A few women may bridge this gap for lust or money or dimestore psychological reasons, but most of the 28-year-old women I know would prefer to date a great, stable 30-40 year-old – who also knows what Snapchat is. But don’t forget, you and your younger girlfriends are the EXCEPTION. When I was in my late 30’s I became involved with someone 15 yrs. The age difference did not seem especially significant during the 5 yrs we were together.And the truth is that most of them are completely creeped out at the prospect of dating a guy who was alive when JFK was alive. Now in my mid 40’s though, the idea of dating someone in their 60’s does seem like a big difference in terms of where we each are in life. Do you sometimes feel like you’re the only guy you know who doesn’t have a girlfriend, or as though you’re probably NEVER going to meet a beautiful woman and have a successful relationship? It all starts with you understand how to trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction for you.Once you know how to do that, getting laid or getting a girlfriend is a very simply thing to do. Do you know how to actively trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction for you when you talk to her, or do you just hope to be liked by her because you’re a good guy?